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How To Live Your Best Life Ever

Lewet Set, Nordstrom,

Few years back I realized that mental peace is my top most priority in life. In my 20s my priority used to be happiness but soon that was not enough. Without sanity and the belief that I am doing the best I can at any given point, even happiness was not enough. Last couple of years I went back to reading. I broadened my view with books which were out of my comfort zone. Books, which I would not have picked up given a choice - a lot of memoirs, non-fiction, self-help etc. Books, which would help me understand our habits, choices, thoughts.

This year, I decided to focus on spending time with myself doing things which bring me joy and help me feel productive without the task being laborious. These are some of the lessons I have learnt along the way, some through the books and others through my personal experiences:


"Don't let the expectations and opinions of other people affect your decisions. It's your life, not theirs. Do what matters most to you; do what makes you feel alive and happy. Don't let the expectations and ideas of others limit who you are. If you let others tell you who you are, you are living their reality — not yours. There is more to life than pleasing people. There is much more to life than following others' prescribed path. There is so much more to life than what you experience right now. You need to decide who you are for yourself. Become a whole being. Adventure." 
— Roy T. Bennett

We all have been there ... a negative comment, or unfavorable feedback can easily ruin the day. It is not easy to get past it. It does not happen over night but if you really think about it (and try) you will realize that what others think it is their business. They are a viewer of your life from outside. It is you who know the reasons and have to live with your actions. So do what makes the most sense to you. People will move on to the next person in a heartbeat while you will be left wondering, "what if?"


If you really want to do something, do it. Don't over think. Don't over plan. Just do it. The branding, the aesthetics, the what-not is all well and good to a certain extent but in the end you have to just roll with it. How many brands you know have changed their logos? How many have completely changed their products? It can all be worked out but if you never take any action you will never get anywhere. It also applies in your personal life, whether it is a skill you want to acquire, or a class you want to take or habit you want to break - Don't wait for Monday to start something. Just do it. 


We all know how Steve Jobs was fired from Apple and how he came back and conquered the whole market. Or how Thomas Edison attempted creating a light bulb 10,000 times before he was successful in making it. Or how Marlyn Monroe was first rejected as a model/actress. It is all part of the process (journey?) If you really want to do something or be someone all you have to do is find a way to keep that passion alive. And the best way to keep the passion alive is to keep working on it without expectations. Do it for yourself. Learn from what is not working, improve and keep at it. That's the only way to achieve anything. 


There is no such thing as perfect. The word itself is quite pointless. Perfect is boring. Perfect is bland. No one likes perfection. That is why we are all trying to disrupt the popular culture and constantly deviating it in different directions.

"If you look for perfection, you'll never be content." 
— Leo Tolstoy

Work with what you have today and down the line with passion and practice you will get close to perfection. But never attempting something because you believe you are not 'perfect' is like giving up even before trying. Don't chase perfection. Chase passion. 

"The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials." 
— Confucius

Moving on to the outfit ... seen here living my perfectly imperfect life at a weekend staycation at Lord Baltimore Hotel. Collaborated with Nordstrom and Jess for a photoshoot at this historic property. I cannot tell you how much in love I am with this Lewit set <skirt + top> I am wearing below. This skirt fits like a dream and is super flattering. Just in time for the Nordstrom Sale, if you are a cardholder. 

Photography via JessBeeCreates
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Location - Baltimore, Maryland

Top - Lewit via Nordstrom // Same
Skirt - Lewit via Nordstrom // Same
Shoes - Lucky Brand // Similar
Earrings - ASOS // Similar



  1. Another beautifully inspiring post, T. And I lovely two piece set. I'm am dying over that staircase shot.

  2. It's hard not to allow all this external forces of life to influence you, you just have to keep your heart with all diligence cos out of it comes the issues of life

  3. You look so gorgeous!
    That dress is stunning on you.

  4. So many great tips! I feel like so many of us in this industry struggle with comparison and it is such a killer.

  5. I try not to think about what other people think, but it's so hard with some things! These are great!

  6. Great reminders and such a good post!!

  7. Have you lost a lot of weight from your face? Your skin looks very different.

    1. I don't suppose I have ... But how does my skin looks different? Is that good or bad? :)

  8. I'm trying to be better about not making excuses. I always feel like I need a reason to say no.

  9. Yes Yes Yes! I agree with everything you said! It makes such a difference when it comes to personal happiness!

  10. Social media makes it so hard not to worry about what other people think - but I agree it's so important to try!

    xx Mollie

  11. Yes to all of this! I especially need to work on #1, I care too much about what others think....

  12. Love the one about failure! I need to work on that one. Great post as usual.

  13. I think mental peace and happiness go hand in hand. I'm also at a place in my life where I want internal peace above all else. I'm in the process of making some changes tp help align with that. I've been saying for the last few years that perfection is an illusion that does not exist and makes people unhappy and unfilled. I hope you are living your best life ever and I'm working to achieve that myself.

  14. I love that dress and your jewelry! Emerald is my birthstone so I have a soft spot for any green gem stones, pretty much! I, like many others, need to work on that "caring what others think" rule...

  15. First off I LOVE the outfit your wearing and that one piccy of your on the hotel stairs is stunning. WRT to living your best live you're spot on Tanvi, we should all try to be our very own best friends and forgive ourselves a little more often. We only have one life

  16. I love this post babe! I love that you mentioned that perfection is an illusion, it's so true!

    cute & little

  17. For one, these photos are stunning! You look lovely and that location is so classy! Secondly, you are SO RIGHT. The older I get the more I think 'why did I care what ______ thought?!' ESPECIALLY strangers! Who cares! I seriously love all of these!

  18. It was really cool to read your perspective on life and how to achieve what you're striving for! I think it's incredibly important to realize that failure is part of life and doesn't mean you're losing! Also, remembering not to care what others think is super necessary as well! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

  19. These photos are absolutely beautiful lady! And you could not be more right about EVERYTHING you said. These really are the keys to living your best life and a happy life. Thanks for the reminder!

    xo Laura Leigh

  20. Great post, photos are perfect :)
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  21. When I entered my 30s, my mental peace was my #1 priority. It was almost as if something shifted and I wasn't going to put up with any more mess. I love when you said "Perfect is boring!" It definitely is and we have to stop holding ourselves and others to an unreasonable standard.

  22. I love this! Not only is perfection an illusional but it also so paralyzing! Thank you so much for sharing :)

    -xo, Azanique |

  23. Such a great post and really thought-provoking. It's great to get to a point in your life where you feel more at peace and comfortable with yourself. Your jewelry in this post is also so stunning! :)
    Charlie |

  24. As always, there is so much wisdom in your writing, my dear Tanvi. My early life was pretty much dictated to me. What others thought has marked my path and I didn't have the choice. As soon as I got the power to decide by myself I totally detached myself from external judgement. But it is not all roses and one needs to learn when and who to listen to. Finding the right balance is difficult and I'm still working on it. Being surrounded by the right people is crucial!!
    BTW your outfit is super elegant and your jewelry is to die for!!

  25. I really enjoyed reading this post Tanvi. I am so happy to read you are working so hard on your own happiness. It is something I really need to take time to do myself. You look so lovely in that dress too :)

  26. Not caring about what others think, is so hard for me. I always try to tell myself not but there are times where in the back of my head, I do.

  27. Some are harder to live up to sometimes, but they are certainly essential to be able to progress in life!

  28. Thank you for this inspiring post. I really needed this. I am going through some rough time right now and it's not at all in my control. I just have to wait and watch and hope it turns in my favor. P.S.: Loving the skirt and top set.


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