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Y'know what I lack?

Y'know what I lack? That childlike wonder about things and experiences. I am pretty neutral about everything in life, which I am not sure, if is a good or a bad thing? 

Whenever there is a travel coming up or I make a big purchase, people often ask me, "How do you feel about it?" Are you excited? Are you looking forward to the travels? And I look at them (or wonder in my head) with a bewildered expression. I don't have any explicit 'feelings' about this stuff. It's just life. These are things I plan, I experience and/or I enjoy but they are not necessarily the things I have passionate thoughts about.

Often, what I want to talk about are things which most people are not interested in - like human nature, behaviors, politics, relationships, why we all think differently but behave similarly, etc. When I do share how I feel about these things, people often remark that , "You think too much". 

So this is where all my conversations die. "Stuff" that I want to talk about does not interest many and the "stuff" people want to discuss, I have no explicit feelings about. 

Oh, well! That's why I have this blog. 

Below is the same day I recorded this video. Hence, the same outfit :) 

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Top - Marc by Marc Jacobs // Similar
Skirt - Ann Taylor // Same
Shoes - Nordstrom // Similar
Bag - Christian Dior // Similar
Necklace - ASOS // Better



  1. Your hair is looking really fantastic in this post. And I can kind of relate to what you're saying. I like to talk about those things, but I do admit that I enjoy talking about "nonsense" as well. But really it's the childlike wonder about life that I don't seem to have, either. People always ask me if I'm excited about things, and 9 times out of 10 I am not. I just don't get excitable. A lot of times that's a positive (as I think that's why I don't have any FOMO), but sometimes I think it would be nice to be more excited about certain things.



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