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WUWT: Unasked for Advice

Some people cannot help themselves. They HAVE TO give their damn advice. No ...I do not mean their point of view or opinion. It is literally "advice" which absolutely no one asked for and often begins with "should" ... From what you "should" have worn and how ... to what you should eat, to what you should have done ... What's up with that? Hello? If and when your help is required, I shall ask! Till then try and focus on what YOU should be doing/wearing/eating instead of me. Thank you very much. Rant over! ... So how've you been? :)  

This  outfit, too has been in drafts for about a month! P.S. I miss my photographer :( 
Earrings & Pendant - Gift from Mom [10']
Tank - Kazo [India, 11']
Jeans - Miss Sixty [06']
Shoes - Spring [10']

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52 comments

  1. SwatiNovember 16, 2011 at 1:25 AM

    Hahha.. some people just can't stop advising others or poking their nose in other's stuff. They are used to of doing this and we can't help them.

    gorgeous as always.love the jewelry.

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  2. AnonymousNovember 16, 2011 at 1:27 AM

    hehe.. i think we all feel the same way some times. n btw you look lovely.
    do visit my blog at sometimes and leave youe comments. your ADVICES will be valued.

    stay blessed!

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  3. SaimeseNovember 16, 2011 at 1:35 AM

    I've heard so many people giving out their unwanted advice to first-time-parents. The parents usually get so annoyed!

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  4. PurviNovember 16, 2011 at 2:26 AM

    Mostly such advices comes from those irritating relatives who are just waiting for an opportunity to pounce at you and to make you miserable to derive some sort of sadistic pleasure... Whenever I encounter such unwanted advices from my relatives , all that I say is that I am happy being what I am and I do as I please.... but then of course I can not be so blunt with my husband's relatives so I jut smile and pass it by :(

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  5. sulagna November 16, 2011 at 2:41 AM

    WUWT kya hota hai..anyways forget the world..just remember i SOO LOOK FORWARD TO YOUR POSTS(yes intentionally in caps)

    *hugs*

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  6. VixNovember 16, 2011 at 3:22 AM

    Some people have nothing better to do, have they?
    Loving your ripped jeans and your gloriously toned arms. Hope your photographer and yourself get reunited soon. x

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  7. LeiaNovember 16, 2011 at 3:31 AM

    Awww, I hope you are reunited with your photographer soon! ;) Lovely casual outfit and you know I droool over that bag. Those shoes are awesome too!

    ♥ Leia

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  8. SonshuNovember 16, 2011 at 3:43 AM

    How very true. :/ I hope the photographer's back soon. :)

    I love that bag. The shoes and the earrings are a favourtie. :)

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  9. SuruchiNovember 16, 2011 at 3:48 AM

    Haha-I like the way you say 'rant over' and yes, if everyone began to mind their own business or keep the advice to themselves-they'd choke!:(

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  10. Anupriya DGNovember 16, 2011 at 4:02 AM

    It's not ofetn that we see you in a jeans & tee outfit.....but you're rocking the same nevertheless! :)

    Hope you get back to your photographer soon!

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  11. niaNovember 16, 2011 at 4:24 AM

    Hey Tanvi!
    Lovely as ever! Of all the things your confidence stands out the most!

    In the post i see my thoughts resonating.Of late i hve been stuggling with recurring acne...well, I am bothered abt it... but i knw it's a mtter of time. But the "unwanted/nver asked advices" have been keeping me at the edge...every other person..even someone walking past you... has an advice for it.."do your clean up properly, dont use soap...dont drink coffee'....man! i hv nt been sleeping all the while!!...and i never asked for it.

    Thanks for the post...i loved it! :)

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  12. RiàNovember 16, 2011 at 5:14 AM

    Nice chilled out look...isnt it cold there yet? I cant imagine wearign anything like that here. Yes its very irritating when ppl give unsolicited advice.

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  13. Barbara von EngerNovember 16, 2011 at 5:58 AM

    Ripped jeans looks so good on you. This is such a cool, relaxed look.
    And don't worry abot such people.
    Keep being positive. That's the only way. xx

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  14. Lee OliveiraNovember 16, 2011 at 6:15 AM

    I like this casual look on you.. jeans and t shirt..
    Keep positive
    Lee

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  15. Collette OsunaNovember 16, 2011 at 6:25 AM

    Those are some rocking shoes girls....unwanted advice stinks....I tell them to "keep it moving", lol.
    You look fab!

    Come Join the Fab Fashion Blogger Meet Up!!

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  16. Pranita KocharekarNovember 16, 2011 at 6:26 AM

    Love the hair, the earrings look so gorgeous on your pretty face! :D

    www.arty-heart.blogspot.com

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  17. ChintanNovember 16, 2011 at 7:02 AM

    We have mastered the skill of advising, so much so that it is tightly embedded in the genes now!

    I love the outfit :) The bag and the background, uncanny color match :D

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  18. Johanna L.November 16, 2011 at 7:38 AM

    Oh my, I know exactly what you mean! It is so annoying. But I do love that outfit, it's so easy-going, and the colours look great :) xoxo

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  19. UnknownNovember 16, 2011 at 8:14 AM

    I loathe receiving unasked advice, especially when the person doesn't have any experience on the topic at hand. You look beautiful as always! That bag is super cute.

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  20. ShybikerNovember 16, 2011 at 8:25 AM

    Yeah, I don't understand that either. And, most of the time, the speaker is clueless and the "advice" has no value.

    A big part of my job is giving advice -- which I don't do unless your check clears... :)

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  21. HiFashionNovember 16, 2011 at 9:01 AM

    Haha, I HATE people like that.

    You look so cool here. Love the outfit. Your jeans look great.

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  22. GayatriNovember 16, 2011 at 9:09 AM

    Haha! I have many of those in my life, so I know what you mean. You "should" just ignore them. Easier said than done, I know. But since they have this itch to give advice, consider it their problem, not yours :)

    Your outfit is soooo edgy! Love the top.

    Gayatri

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  23. pavani reddyNovember 16, 2011 at 9:37 AM

    cool outfit tanvi...aww missing ur photographer!!!my relatives are all like that sooo i just learned to deal wit it...

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  24. ChandanaNovember 16, 2011 at 10:31 AM

    I wouldn't really call that as advice. They are just poking their nose where it doesn't belong! And its damn annoying.
    Cute top!

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  25. Frannie PantzNovember 16, 2011 at 10:49 AM

    Some people really need to mind their own business. I especially love when something happens and you get "wow, you should have _______." Thanks. That's really helpful after the fact.

    I love your earrings and these great heels. They add dimension to your otherwise casual outfit. Great look Tanvi!

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  26. michelle_November 16, 2011 at 10:54 AM

    LOVE THOSE RIPPED JEANSS !!!

    WWW.GLISTERSANDBLISTERS.COM

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  27. SharanNovember 16, 2011 at 2:26 PM

    I can't believe you are still wearing a tank in Houston! I am having another blogging slump, oh well! Good luck dealing with folks who love to "give advice." I say stay clear :)

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  28. UnknownNovember 16, 2011 at 2:43 PM

    I like the over all look, nix pix n love the bag !!

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  29. Kritika MehtaNovember 16, 2011 at 3:04 PM

    I looove the bag! :)

    Love
    labelpurple.blogspot.com

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  30. amy b.s.November 16, 2011 at 5:08 PM

    and why does it always seem to come from either people who don't know what they're talking about or people you would never take advice from to begin with.

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  31. Mia M.November 16, 2011 at 5:29 PM

    love your pants! they look so cool!

    bisous,
    mia

    HEYLILAHEY

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  32. stylenuggetsNovember 16, 2011 at 9:03 PM

    You know I like your rant because I get a lot of that too. Don't know why. Love the bag and the awesome earrings

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  33. MoniqueNovember 16, 2011 at 9:29 PM

    You have such an edgy look in these pics. love your accesories

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  34. shuchitaNovember 16, 2011 at 10:33 PM

    have you been meeting a lot of irritating relatives and well meaning aunties??? cause they give a lot of such unasked for advice

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  35. AnubhaNovember 17, 2011 at 1:59 AM

    hehe..I know..some ppl HAVE to give advice...cos noone actually listens to them! :)

    Lookin great...love the casual look, and the accessories...esp the earrings! And in fabulous shape!!

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  36. mispapelicosNovember 17, 2011 at 4:23 AM

    Thank you for your kind words, my dear Tanvi.
    You look glorious, as ever.
    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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  37. Chic AccessorizerNovember 17, 2011 at 5:50 AM

    i totally agree wid u i also absolutly hate it when ppl gv their un asked for advice...btw luv the bag...i hav been a regular follower of ur blog n i totally luv it...

    xoxo
    Chic Accessorizer
    www.chicaccessorizer.blogspot.com

    p.s: follow me plz :)

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  38. Miss. MysticNovember 17, 2011 at 10:19 AM

    Nice jeans and I love the shoes! and I quite agree, some people cant MYOB and have to comment on everything. Take my advice, ignore them (no pun intended) :P

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  39. Jelena ZivanovicNovember 17, 2011 at 11:27 AM

    I know for this type of people and I don't pay any attention to them or their words! I just don't care!!
    I love thsi look Tanvi, luckily it's not in drafts anymore!;)
    In order to celebrate its first b-day I'm having a giveaway on my blog- Glam Chameleon Jewelry necklace. Check it out, maybe u'll like it!!;)
    kisses
    Jelena (glamfabchameleon.blogspot.com)

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  40. AnonymousNovember 17, 2011 at 11:53 AM

    You sound upset. lol You would think by now most people would know your opinion on giving that kind of advice.

    I LOVE that first picture. The tone, makeup, earrings, everything really. It fits.

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  41. Jahn 'n StyleNovember 17, 2011 at 12:24 PM

    you look lovely as always Tanvi :)

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  42. NatashaNovember 17, 2011 at 12:48 PM

    yup..I totally get you..Infact, the last time I was in India , there was this aunty who not only suggested what exactly we need to invest on, but also how many kids I need to have*eye roll* ..But I guess it takes all kinds of people to make the world :p

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  43. Sayantani SahaNovember 17, 2011 at 5:50 PM

    awww..u miss ur photographer! Still in India Tanvi?
    I love the bag :)

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  44. Oh to Be a MuseNovember 17, 2011 at 8:18 PM

    love the earrings -- love the shoes!

    so aside from people giving you unwarranted advice...how have you been?

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  45. little luxury listNovember 17, 2011 at 11:07 PM

    Those earrings are so awesome! Yes true, some people just gotta comment (I can be guilty of it sometimes!)

    xoxo,
    Chic 'n Cheap Living

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  46. Overlooking MississippiNovember 18, 2011 at 12:28 AM

    Is it me or does this happen more in Indian culture..you know there's always some aunty with ample amount of unwanted/unasked advice..LOL
    I totally know how you feel :)

    Very cute purse btw.

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  47. www.majormusthaves.comNovember 18, 2011 at 12:38 AM

    I can't stand when people do that to me, but it always happens. You looks like you are 18 in these pics. The purple looks great against your skin.

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  48. SoumiNovember 18, 2011 at 1:43 PM

    I LOVE,LOVE,LOVE the sling!It's so annoying,isn't it?How people decide if something 'suits your personality' or not?Back off,guys!I'm fine!

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  49. Gorgeous GlamNovember 18, 2011 at 5:00 PM

    LOVE the purse! xx

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  50. Haute MuslimahNovember 21, 2011 at 12:30 PM

    You look lovely all serious and stuff :)

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  51. DenaNovember 23, 2011 at 6:35 PM

    Love your response to them though ;)

    Gorgeous girl and AMAZING bag.

    Dena
    x

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  52. Anita...December 7, 2011 at 12:17 PM

    take my advice... IGNORE THEM :-p

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