It is about exact opposite-kinda-people, with whom no matter how many times you meet, or how much ever time you spend, every time you meet them again ... it is like starting from ground zero! You have to re-build the equation, work on the bond and reach that level of comfort where you are not walking on eggshells. Every.single.time. What's up with that? Don't these people have a sense of continuation? We already crossed that bridge ... how many times are we gonna continue doing the same song and dance? Haven't they heard life is short? And here they are wasting my time and energy!
Disclaimer: These are the people whom you HAVE TO meet/communicate with whether you like it or not. If there was a way out, trust me I would have taken it already!
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I completely agree with you!! I know a few people in my extended family who are exactly like this, and I have no choice but to be polite!! Those shoes are so pretty and I love the way they match the dial of your watch :-))
ReplyDeletei totally can understand this! and by the way the location is so fabulous, i so want to see the place
ReplyDeleteA nice blog!
ReplyDeleteGreat post again, it's interesting to read all your thoughts. (and you pick great subjects every time) I love your outfit, it's very cute and girly. :) and those shoes are just amazing. xoxo
ReplyDeletehaha! Lets not even get into that territory (for me). I dont know if its the ego or just not letting go..but some relationships do suck the energy out of you.
ReplyDeleteanyway, the shoes look great!
omg i know what you mean. and i wont comment any further than that.
ReplyDeleteoff to the imp stuff- what a fun, cute look. you look like a doll. :-D
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i totally agree with you. It really hard to tackle this kind of people/ relation. I try to avoid these people my level best but even then some times you have to meet up with them.
ReplyDeleteNice shoes.
Tanvi I love your posts! Yet another spot on evaluation of these types of people.
ReplyDeleteOutfit is very cute too.
i love ur top and ur shoes!!
ReplyDeleteTHE top is so cute!!!!
ReplyDelete:) :)
adore this outfit. such a fun combo. thanks for sharing love. If you get a second I'd love to hear what you think of my latest ring obsessed post. xo
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yes we all have people in our life whom we will avoid at any cost if possible, usually they come in the form of pesky relatives ;)
ReplyDeleteI definitely understand the people you're talking about. I can't stand them.
ReplyDeleteI absolutely love that top!! It put a smile on my face and it's a pretty colour.
Lovely outfit, I like it! Take a look at my blog, and if you like it follow me, I’ll be waiting for you!
ReplyDeleteCosa mi metto???
Love the tee and the shoes. :)
ReplyDeleteHa, ha, I think they do know about continuation, but just enjoy the "drama" so much better:):) Love that pink and black combo, looks great on you:)
ReplyDeletelovely outfit tanvi...
ReplyDeletei totally love ur look its tooo cute!!!
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Oh those people/relationships are just exhausting, aren't they? It's like been there, don't that. Too much work for my taste. But soemtimes you have no choice and have to put up with it.
ReplyDeleteLove this look! That shirt is adorable. And love your nails. Is it Graphite? I'm wearing it today :) xoxo
You look so so cute!
ReplyDeleteI KNOW ow you feel hunnie...I think we all have "those types" in our lives....some things are just wayy easier than others.
ReplyDeleteI happen to think your little pink outfit is SUPER CUTE!!
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the colour of the shoes is absolutely yummy!
ReplyDeleteReally, really love this outfit - so pretty and irreverent at the same time :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a super quirky outfit! Love the tee
ReplyDeleteCouldn't disagree with you on this one. ;)
ReplyDeleteLove your outfit!! It's so girly!!!
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It is always frustrating dealing with people like that. I never understood it, but I do know a couple people like that. :P I hope you've been well! I miss reading your blog everyday! Cute outfit, by the way!
ReplyDeleteI try to get people with light.
ReplyDeleteYou look solovely in pink.
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i completely know what you mean. and wish i saw more of the people that i just fall back into a great friendship with. and less of the awkward.
ReplyDeletei cut off with such people...totally!
ReplyDeleteand am in blah mood already today..
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I know what you mean. I spent most of last year trying to build bridges. I've given up now. My go-to topics are hi, hello, how are you, how are the kids, you look nice, what vacation plans this year! Tried and tested formula and I don't bother going beyond that :)
ReplyDeleteYour shoes look delicious :)
Gayatri
The little tongue sticking out is sooo cute!
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LOL I know just what you mean! I hate that especially because I am not one for small talk. Or awkward silences. Lame-o. Love your graphic tee! Uber cute!
ReplyDeleteadorable outfit hunny!!
ReplyDeleteCouldnt agree with you more!
ReplyDeleteLove the black skirt, classic!
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you look cute in anything u wear. not many people can carry off such diversified outfit panache. and you are right about some people who'd always be at ground zero when it comes to mutual comfort level, personally I believe sense of comfort has a lot to do with how a person chooses to react, some people are just so dull and confounding you'll never know where you have headed with them irrespective of the great lengths of time spent together.
ReplyDeleteThese kinda peeps are sooo exhausting, mentally and emotionally...
ReplyDeleteYour outfit is beyond cute lady.
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you look so cute in this outfit and the background is great too.
ReplyDeleteLuckily all the people I hang around with are fabulous, I'd hate to have to waste my time with anyone who isn't.
ReplyDeleteTalking of fab, love what you're wearing, so bright and fun. x
Very cute outfit doll! Hope you feel better now. :) xx
ReplyDeletethis is such a playful outfit...i love the brights. ah yes i know "those ground zero" people" who its just so tough with.
ReplyDeleteCute shirt. We all have a couple of these characters as friends or acquaintances or most likely relatives.
ReplyDeleteI know a few people like that too. Painful meeting them! But then we weren't meant to get along with everyone so that's OK. Cute tee!
ReplyDeleteyou look so cute Tanvi :)
ReplyDeleteCUTE OUtfit and I sooo get what your saying I have some of those friends to...lol You have a great blog I'm so Following!
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ciao,
ReplyDeleteYou are right .....but it's impossible to see and just have relations with the people we love to meet and stay .
lovely bright outfit
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It's simple - you have a connection with some people and you can never have one with others.
ReplyDeleteOoh pink shoes!
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You're making me laugh here...no but seriously you are right...there are some people you just mesh with and no matter how long you go without seeing them..you just pick right back up..like no time has passed. I feel like more of my connections are like that. I am trying to think of the opposite type of situation and I can't think of anyone right now. Anyways-love the skirt too :)
ReplyDeleteI'm wrecking my brain, but I don't think I know any of THESE people - professionally or privately. BTW, you're looking absolutely luuuuvly today! x
ReplyDeletelove the way you have accessorised ur costume!!
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Ah, those fun parts of life we can't avoid...I know those feelings well!
ReplyDeleteBut at least you look adorable.
haaaw, who got you on the wrong side?*i hope not me:(*
ReplyDeleteand koi na just smile n bear:-)
and madam ji i think you are looking younger now with every post, post your thirtieth birthday-gods are kind and you divine:-)
arre waah, poetry ho gaye:-)
haaaaaaaaaaaaw...another foot in the mouth moment-i thought u said you were moving to your thirties on your last birthday;-)
ReplyDeletekoi na-gorgeous is always gorgeous-at 30 or 29;-)
Girl you are so right. These type of people are draining!!! You look fab girlie!!!
ReplyDeleteLoving this look on you. I have to try it out! Pretty Tanvi.
The tee is so cute...
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i love love love your watch! :D
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really great shoes!
ReplyDeleteSo many people like that we all have, I think... But as soon as we learn to deal with those people lighter, without putting too much energy or our precious time, better for us... basic communication, that's what they need...
ReplyDeleteOn the other side u look so girly and happy wearing this top!!:)) I love your shoes!:) kisses
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Ohhhhh I so know the kind of people you are talking about :p and the situation(s) they lead too..
ReplyDeleteLove the tee...super cute :)
Hello dear, I love your blog! I'll see a lot for your blog!
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jeez! i just met one such person today.
ReplyDeleteabsolutely lurrved the shoes!
Love the shoes :)
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Great pleated skirt! xo style, she wrote
ReplyDeleteI love your shoes! And I agree - it's so awkward in those situations!
ReplyDeleteI concur with your frustrations as well. Sigh. There's no avoiding, huh?
ReplyDeleteLove how cute you look in this ensemble :)
Kiran @ KiranTarun.com
Yep, I work with a chic, (she's 20 years older than me and should know better,) that is like this with me and makes me bananas. Then there is my hubs' bff's fiancee who makes me cringe everytime we have to hang out. Like you said, we have to start at groud zero everytime and life is too short! Meh...Happy wknd!! xo -Taj
ReplyDeletelove the color of the shoes!! so pretty :)
ReplyDeleteYou know, I had that sort of a situation with one girl I used to work with. The sad thing was, we both were trying.. it just always ended up starting over everytime we met again. Must've been the alignment of the stars or something.. ah well.
ReplyDeleteLove this outfit... I think your top is so cute!
hehe! but some people like having their records stuck. i love this tee!
ReplyDeletelove it all, still doing everything right :)
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Lydz xX
What a funky outfit! I especially love the shoes :).
ReplyDeleteOh, I completely get what you mean by a sense of continuation - surprisingly enough, I feel that sense the least with my first cousins on my father's side! Not so much as I would stop seeing them if I could, but I don't know, I feel like we should be a little closer, I guess...
- Laura
My fav shoes STILL! Cute outfit!
ReplyDeleteBTW, did you color your hair???
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