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WUWT: Sense of Continuation

You know how you have some people in your life, whom you might meet after ages, but always seem to pick up right from where you left off? Yeah!? Well, this post is not about them. 

It is about exact opposite-kinda-people, with whom no matter how many times you meet, or how much ever time you spend, every time you meet them again ... it is like starting from ground zero! You have to re-build the equation, work on the bond and reach that level of comfort where you are not walking on eggshells. Every.single.time. What's up with that? Don't these people have a sense of continuation? We already crossed that bridge ... how many times are we gonna continue doing the same song and dance? Haven't they heard life is short? And here they are wasting my time and energy!

Disclaimer: These are the people whom you HAVE TO meet/communicate with whether you like it or not. If there was a way out, trust me I would have taken it already! 


Dress - Gift [Allen Solly (India), 09']
Tee - Urban Outfitters [10']
Shoes - BCBG via Macy's [08']
Bangles - Here & There 
Watch - Casio [11']
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73 comments

  1. beingFabOctober 12, 2011 at 1:11 AM

    I completely agree with you!! I know a few people in my extended family who are exactly like this, and I have no choice but to be polite!! Those shoes are so pretty and I love the way they match the dial of your watch :-))

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  2. AnshOctober 12, 2011 at 1:16 AM

    i totally can understand this! and by the way the location is so fabulous, i so want to see the place

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  3. Rahul BhatiaOctober 12, 2011 at 1:35 AM

    A nice blog!

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  4. Johanna L.October 12, 2011 at 1:47 AM

    Great post again, it's interesting to read all your thoughts. (and you pick great subjects every time) I love your outfit, it's very cute and girly. :) and those shoes are just amazing. xoxo

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  5. NightflierOctober 12, 2011 at 1:51 AM

    haha! Lets not even get into that territory (for me). I dont know if its the ego or just not letting go..but some relationships do suck the energy out of you.
    anyway, the shoes look great!

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  6. UnknownOctober 12, 2011 at 2:02 AM

    omg i know what you mean. and i wont comment any further than that.

    off to the imp stuff- what a fun, cute look. you look like a doll. :-D

    http://cactusandcucumber.blogspot.com

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  7. SwatiOctober 12, 2011 at 2:03 AM

    i totally agree with you. It really hard to tackle this kind of people/ relation. I try to avoid these people my level best but even then some times you have to meet up with them.

    Nice shoes.

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  8. caribbean princessOctober 12, 2011 at 2:10 AM

    Tanvi I love your posts! Yet another spot on evaluation of these types of people.
    Outfit is very cute too.

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  9. OreleonaOctober 12, 2011 at 2:25 AM

    i love ur top and ur shoes!!

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  10. Gargi Salgaonkar October 12, 2011 at 2:49 AM

    THE top is so cute!!!!
    :) :)

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  11. Fash BoulevardOctober 12, 2011 at 2:54 AM

    adore this outfit. such a fun combo. thanks for sharing love. If you get a second I'd love to hear what you think of my latest ring obsessed post. xo

    www.fashboulevard.blogspot.com

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  12. shuchitaOctober 12, 2011 at 3:56 AM

    yes we all have people in our life whom we will avoid at any cost if possible, usually they come in the form of pesky relatives ;)

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  13. HiFashionOctober 12, 2011 at 4:18 AM

    I definitely understand the people you're talking about. I can't stand them.

    I absolutely love that top!! It put a smile on my face and it's a pretty colour.

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  14. Fabrizia SpinelliOctober 12, 2011 at 5:47 AM

    Lovely outfit, I like it! Take a look at my blog, and if you like it follow me, I’ll be waiting for you!

    Cosa mi metto???

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  15. RiàOctober 12, 2011 at 6:41 AM

    Love the tee and the shoes. :)

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  16. AmithigirlOctober 12, 2011 at 7:48 AM

    Ha, ha, I think they do know about continuation, but just enjoy the "drama" so much better:):) Love that pink and black combo, looks great on you:)

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  17. pavani reddyOctober 12, 2011 at 9:29 AM

    lovely outfit tanvi...

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  18. Chic AccessorizerOctober 12, 2011 at 9:57 AM

    i totally love ur look its tooo cute!!!
    xoxo
    Chic Accessorizer
    www.chicaccessorizer.blogspot.com

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  19. THE ALTERNATIVE WIFEOctober 12, 2011 at 10:10 AM

    Oh those people/relationships are just exhausting, aren't they? It's like been there, don't that. Too much work for my taste. But soemtimes you have no choice and have to put up with it.

    Love this look! That shirt is adorable. And love your nails. Is it Graphite? I'm wearing it today :) xoxo

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  20. AnonymousOctober 12, 2011 at 10:51 AM

    You look so so cute!

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  21. Collette OsunaOctober 12, 2011 at 11:07 AM

    I KNOW ow you feel hunnie...I think we all have "those types" in our lives....some things are just wayy easier than others.
    I happen to think your little pink outfit is SUPER CUTE!!
    Hugs to you on HuMpDaY:)


    Statements In Fashion: A Funky Little Fashion Blog

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  22. SEPOOctober 12, 2011 at 11:13 AM

    the colour of the shoes is absolutely yummy!

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  23. UnknownOctober 12, 2011 at 11:14 AM

    Really, really love this outfit - so pretty and irreverent at the same time :)

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  24. UnknownOctober 12, 2011 at 11:19 AM

    What a super quirky outfit! Love the tee

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  25. AnonymousOctober 12, 2011 at 11:36 AM

    Couldn't disagree with you on this one. ;)

    Love your outfit!! It's so girly!!!


    xoxo

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  26. Tara @ Haute LunchOctober 12, 2011 at 11:48 AM

    It is always frustrating dealing with people like that. I never understood it, but I do know a couple people like that. :P I hope you've been well! I miss reading your blog everyday! Cute outfit, by the way!

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  27. mispapelicosOctober 12, 2011 at 11:51 AM

    I try to get people with light.
    You look solovely in pink.
    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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  28. amy b.s.October 12, 2011 at 11:53 AM

    i completely know what you mean. and wish i saw more of the people that i just fall back into a great friendship with. and less of the awkward.

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  29. ChintanOctober 12, 2011 at 12:02 PM

    i cut off with such people...totally!

    and am in blah mood already today..

    #_#
    The Blunt Blog

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  30. GayatriOctober 12, 2011 at 12:06 PM

    I know what you mean. I spent most of last year trying to build bridges. I've given up now. My go-to topics are hi, hello, how are you, how are the kids, you look nice, what vacation plans this year! Tried and tested formula and I don't bother going beyond that :)

    Your shoes look delicious :)

    Gayatri

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  31. LeiaOctober 12, 2011 at 12:21 PM

    The little tongue sticking out is sooo cute!

    ♥ Leia

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  32. Frannie PantzOctober 12, 2011 at 12:24 PM

    LOL I know just what you mean! I hate that especially because I am not one for small talk. Or awkward silences. Lame-o. Love your graphic tee! Uber cute!

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  33. Prutha RaithathaOctober 12, 2011 at 2:19 PM

    adorable outfit hunny!!

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  34. whengeekmetchicOctober 12, 2011 at 2:53 PM

    Couldnt agree with you more!
    Love the black skirt, classic!

    When Geek Met Chic

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  35. br|shOctober 12, 2011 at 3:09 PM

    you look cute in anything u wear. not many people can carry off such diversified outfit panache. and you are right about some people who'd always be at ground zero when it comes to mutual comfort level, personally I believe sense of comfort has a lot to do with how a person chooses to react, some people are just so dull and confounding you'll never know where you have headed with them irrespective of the great lengths of time spent together.

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  36. A BRIT GREEKOctober 12, 2011 at 3:49 PM

    These kinda peeps are sooo exhausting, mentally and emotionally...

    Your outfit is beyond cute lady.
    x.o.x.o

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  37. the nyanzi reportOctober 12, 2011 at 4:43 PM

    you look so cute in this outfit and the background is great too.

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  38. VixOctober 12, 2011 at 4:55 PM

    Luckily all the people I hang around with are fabulous, I'd hate to have to waste my time with anyone who isn't.
    Talking of fab, love what you're wearing, so bright and fun. x

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  39. foodieOctober 12, 2011 at 8:57 PM

    Very cute outfit doll! Hope you feel better now. :) xx

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  40. MoniqueOctober 12, 2011 at 9:53 PM

    this is such a playful outfit...i love the brights. ah yes i know "those ground zero" people" who its just so tough with.

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  41. GMOctober 12, 2011 at 10:21 PM

    Cute shirt. We all have a couple of these characters as friends or acquaintances or most likely relatives.

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  42. stylenuggetsOctober 12, 2011 at 10:44 PM

    I know a few people like that too. Painful meeting them! But then we weren't meant to get along with everyone so that's OK. Cute tee!

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  43. Jahn 'n StyleOctober 12, 2011 at 10:58 PM

    you look so cute Tanvi :)

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  44. Sugar with SpikesOctober 13, 2011 at 12:13 AM

    CUTE OUtfit and I sooo get what your saying I have some of those friends to...lol You have a great blog I'm so Following!


    IRENE
    http://sugarwithspikes.blogspot.com/
    http://unseenslaughter.wordpress.com/

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  45. The white cabbageOctober 13, 2011 at 12:26 AM

    ciao,

    You are right .....but it's impossible to see and just have relations with the people we love to meet and stay .

    lovely bright outfit

    ave

    new post by me I wait you

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  46. goodbadnfabOctober 13, 2011 at 2:57 AM

    I heart your blog! I'm now subscribing to your blog on my google reader!

    Please check out my blog when you get a chance.
    http://www.goodbadandfab.com
    the personal style and fashion musings of a LA fashion lawyer living life in the fab lane

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  47. little luxury listOctober 13, 2011 at 8:54 AM

    It's simple - you have a connection with some people and you can never have one with others.
    Ooh pink shoes!

    xoxo,
    Chic 'n Cheap Living

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  48. STYLE'NOctober 13, 2011 at 9:25 AM

    You're making me laugh here...no but seriously you are right...there are some people you just mesh with and no matter how long you go without seeing them..you just pick right back up..like no time has passed. I feel like more of my connections are like that. I am trying to think of the opposite type of situation and I can't think of anyone right now. Anyways-love the skirt too :)

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  49. SabinePsynopsisOctober 13, 2011 at 9:45 AM

    I'm wrecking my brain, but I don't think I know any of THESE people - professionally or privately. BTW, you're looking absolutely luuuuvly today! x

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  50. PranitaOctober 13, 2011 at 10:11 AM

    love the way you have accessorised ur costume!!

    http://www.bindigasm-pranita.blogspot.com/

    xx

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  51. TrophyBoutiqueOctober 13, 2011 at 10:56 AM

    Ah, those fun parts of life we can't avoid...I know those feelings well!
    But at least you look adorable.

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  52. SuruchiOctober 13, 2011 at 10:56 AM

    haaaw, who got you on the wrong side?*i hope not me:(*

    and koi na just smile n bear:-)

    and madam ji i think you are looking younger now with every post, post your thirtieth birthday-gods are kind and you divine:-)
    arre waah, poetry ho gaye:-)

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  53. SuruchiOctober 13, 2011 at 11:03 AM

    haaaaaaaaaaaaw...another foot in the mouth moment-i thought u said you were moving to your thirties on your last birthday;-)

    koi na-gorgeous is always gorgeous-at 30 or 29;-)

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  54. www.majormusthaves.comOctober 13, 2011 at 11:58 AM

    Girl you are so right. These type of people are draining!!! You look fab girlie!!!

    Loving this look on you. I have to try it out! Pretty Tanvi.

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  55. BhushavaliOctober 13, 2011 at 12:21 PM

    The tee is so cute...
    Pond's UV Cream Review

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  56. Cliff TunaOctober 13, 2011 at 12:29 PM

    i love love love your watch! :D

    CROP.CRIP.CROP

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  57. amy b.s.October 13, 2011 at 1:24 PM

    really great shoes!

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  58. Jelena ZivanovicOctober 13, 2011 at 1:43 PM

    So many people like that we all have, I think... But as soon as we learn to deal with those people lighter, without putting too much energy or our precious time, better for us... basic communication, that's what they need...
    On the other side u look so girly and happy wearing this top!!:)) I love your shoes!:) kisses
    Jelena (glamfabchameleon.blogspot.com)

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  59. AGAMOctober 13, 2011 at 3:11 PM

    Ohhhhh I so know the kind of people you are talking about :p and the situation(s) they lead too..
    Love the tee...super cute :)

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  60. UnknownOctober 13, 2011 at 6:57 PM

    Hello dear, I love your blog! I'll see a lot for your blog!
    I invite you to walk through the mine and to follow me if you like!

    a kiss, Claire.
    c.o.c.o.
    http://lookingforthestyle.blogspot.com/

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  61. DhruvaOctober 13, 2011 at 7:31 PM

    jeez! i just met one such person today.

    absolutely lurrved the shoes!

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  62. AnonymousOctober 13, 2011 at 8:03 PM

    Love the shoes :)

    xoxo

    www.typefashion.wordpress.com

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  63. Style, She WroteOctober 13, 2011 at 8:09 PM

    Great pleated skirt! xo style, she wrote

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  64. Audrey AllureOctober 14, 2011 at 10:59 AM

    I love your shoes! And I agree - it's so awkward in those situations!

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  65. AnonymousOctober 14, 2011 at 1:49 PM

    I concur with your frustrations as well. Sigh. There's no avoiding, huh?

    Love how cute you look in this ensemble :)

    Kiran @ KiranTarun.com

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  66. Gorgeous GlamOctober 14, 2011 at 3:24 PM

    Yep, I work with a chic, (she's 20 years older than me and should know better,) that is like this with me and makes me bananas. Then there is my hubs' bff's fiancee who makes me cringe everytime we have to hang out. Like you said, we have to start at groud zero everytime and life is too short! Meh...Happy wknd!! xo -Taj

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  67. AnonymousOctober 14, 2011 at 7:05 PM

    love the color of the shoes!! so pretty :)

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  68. StarOctober 14, 2011 at 8:07 PM

    You know, I had that sort of a situation with one girl I used to work with. The sad thing was, we both were trying.. it just always ended up starting over everytime we met again. Must've been the alignment of the stars or something.. ah well.

    Love this outfit... I think your top is so cute!

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  69. UnknownOctober 15, 2011 at 5:04 AM

    hehe! but some people like having their records stuck. i love this tee!

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  70. Lydz xXOctober 17, 2011 at 12:31 AM

    love it all, still doing everything right :)

    http://themashedup.blogspot.com/
    Lydz xX

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  71. LauraOctober 19, 2011 at 7:12 PM

    What a funky outfit! I especially love the shoes :).
    Oh, I completely get what you mean by a sense of continuation - surprisingly enough, I feel that sense the least with my first cousins on my father's side! Not so much as I would stop seeing them if I could, but I don't know, I feel like we should be a little closer, I guess...
    - Laura

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  72. MyraaOctober 25, 2011 at 1:06 PM

    My fav shoes STILL! Cute outfit!

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  73. MyraaOctober 25, 2011 at 1:06 PM

    BTW, did you color your hair???

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