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Why Fear Failure?

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I was recently having a conversation with someone:

Person: I have learned that when you feel you can’t do something, you should try and switch that thought with how you must at least try.
Me: I think that’s a great perspective
Person: It is all about your state of mind. The vibes you give out in the world, are exactly the ones that come back at you.
Me: * that makes total sense *

This conversation got me pondering over my own actions. Am I scared of trying new things? Do I fear entering the unknown? I would like to believe that I do not. In fact, whenever an opportunity has presented itself, I have never ever thought, “what if I fail?”. I work with logic and economics.
 I am not an over-thinker and am quite decisive. 

If something seems fun and attracts my attention (even if it is challenging), I jump in blind. Once something appeals to me, I straight away say, "Yes!". I do not have the fear of judgement or of failing. Neither do I have the fear of trying something new as long as it is within the parameters of my principles and personality. 

While I don't care about anyone's opinions when it comes to my personal life, there is also nothing in my life thus far that I look back on and think, “oh! I failed at it.” Everything I do, I take it as an experience. I have come to realize that knowing-or-unknowingly, I enjoy collecting varied experiences, and challenges. I have one life, so why fear failure?


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26 comments

  1. I put the fear of failure to rest a long time ago. I realized that even if I fail, I'll still learn and be better the next time.

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  2. Such a great perspective! Something I have struggled with!

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  3. I am working on a post about fear. And why it seems to consuming people irrationally these days. Especially Americans who seem to be afraid of their own shadows.

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  4. I'm loving your denim jacket. I agree, what you put out to the world, comes back over and over, so you might as well make it good!

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  5. This is such a great post! I don't know why but I have always been that person who takes ridiculous yet logical risks and feel that it has made me such a strong person because of it. Thanks for sharing!

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  6. I agree - take what happens as an experience, no matter what. Great post, and I really love your outfit!

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  7. Not a bad idea actually. However,the outfits you wearing look lovely too.

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  8. That is a great perspective to have. I do try not to fear failure but I think it is human nature to fear it a little sometimes.

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  9. The fear of failure can hold us back from greatness! Such a good post :)

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  10. Always have to jump in and face the fears. And that jacket looks great on you!

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  11. Totally agree and I love this look!

    xx
    Lauren Elizabeth
    Petite in Pearls

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  12. I really like that, the vibes you send out are indeed what comes back. Loving your maxi dress and how you have worked it with accessories.

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  13. Totally agree with you! This is a fantastic post you look wonderful!

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  14. This post is amazing, embrace life no matter the out come! You look stunning

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  15. Love the bit about failure! Definitely puts things into perspective when you switch up your attitude about failing

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  16. great perspective to have. and love your outfit!

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  17. This is such a great post. Something I have improved on but still could be better about.

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  18. Love this! Fearing failure is to stifle your own growth. There are amazing things on the other side of fear!

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  19. Your blog has been getting so deep lately! It’s so cool to hear all the thoughts you’ve been pondering!

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  20. Great post! Fearing failure is something I believe we all have to overcome and once we do, the sky is the absolute limit! Xo

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  21. I totally agree -- what you put it is what you get back! Happiness is all in your perspective.

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  22. Your outfit is gorgeous by the way! This is a great new perspective x

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  23. Such a great perspective! Embrace life no matter the outcome!

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  24. Fear from failure is something to holding us back to aim the greatness in our lives.

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  25. Ah! Such a great topic, I'm totally trying to work on putting out more positive vibes!

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