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The Change I Am Scared Of

12:00 AM

... 'change' has been on my mind lately. It is difficult to change, right? That's what we are told and that's what we believe even before we have had a chance to think about change ourselves. But aren't we changing every minute of every day? It is of course involuntary change. It is happening, without our conscious decision. But I am talking about the change, I had mentioned last Monday. The change that requires us to question ourselves and adapt to our new learnings or surrounding. 

Personally I find it easier to change myself, once I have found a fault in my thoughts or actions. If I know my ways are wrong or incorrect, I change in a heartbeat. All it takes is making that decision in my active part of the brain. I have mastered the art of accepting most forms of external and physical changes. 

The change I am scared of is the one which I am not prepared for, or the one which will cause me inconvenience beyond my tolerance. The change which might cause emotional turmoil. The change which changes me and forces me to become a new version of me. That's the change I resist sometimes. Sometimes I like the 'current' me and don't want to hit download on the next version of myself. 

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  1. That's the kind of change that is hard to prepare yourself for, so it totally makes sense. I'm thinking about a change as well, but I'm DEFINITELY not ready to act on it. Too scary, lol.

    Also, totally love this top and those cute blue sunnies.

  2. beatiful outfit and beautiful words! Thanks for sharing :)

  3. Change can be really scary, I completely agree. I have been looking to make a similar change lately. Cheering you on from here! XO

    Anna || A Lily Love Affair

  4. Love this bag! So chic.
    XO Amanda |

  5. Oddly enough, change has been on my mind too and I'm not the best when it comes to changing. I have to make a conscious effort and do a lot of thinking before speaking, saying and doing things. It's hard, and I'm not looking forward to changing to be quite honest but know in my personal instance that I have to! xx Adaleta Avdic

  6. This rings so true when I think about the changes that I'll be forced to make in my life when/if I become a mother. My husband and I discuss this often (with the father aspect for him too). It's a really scary thing to think about.

  7. I've found that the change I most resisted made things better for me in the end. Crazy how that happens!



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