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Secret To A Sexy Marriage, Fiera,

Remember the first time you laid your eyes on each other? The butterflies in the stomach? Couldn't keep your hands off each other? When getting mad at each other was rather 'cute' and not a fight? ... And then life happened! 

You have probably been with each other for years. You know everything there is to know about your partner. You don't want to have sex every day any more. You want your space (six days of the weeks). You realized you are not all that same as you had thought the first week of dating. And now the spark is not as strong. 

That's not the end of of your relationship all though. It doesn't have to be. You can keep it exciting. You have to just put in a little more effort. 

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Five Ways To Keep The Spark Alive In Your Marriage: 

  1. Loose all forms of technology after hours - Put your phone, iPad, gaming console, what-have-you away, after the mutually agreed upon time. I know, you thought this was only when you lived under your parents' supervision, but unfortunately relationships require the same level of disciple and focus. 
  2. Make time for date nights - Whether that is once a week, or once a month, have a date night and bring your A-game. Just as you had when you had just started dating. Plan the evening, dress-up, smell good and compliment each other. P.S. Talk-sexy!
  3. Be adventurous - Take a dance lesson? Learn cooking? May be a yoga class? Just keep the spontaneity going. It gets dull when you know every single day of the rest of your life is going to be same! Also, don't put the burden of all the 'fun' on one person. Both of you need to be committed to the adventure. (ahem! remember my controversial thoughts on marriage?)
  4. Prioritize each other - Be considerate. Be grateful for everything your partner does for you. Make time for each other's interests and passions. Try and keep your partner's feeling in consideration while taking big decisions. It is not all that hard. You just have to be a good human being, not only to your friends, family or strangers but also to your partner.
  5. Try new things (sexually) - Last but not the least, sex! Be adventurous in bed too. Try new positions. May be give role-playing a try? Ask your man to cook you a relaxing meal? Ladies, if you need a little help, try Fiera®. It is a small, hands-free device that is designed to encourage blood flow and lubrication, warming up women’s body for a more satisfying intimate experience. Fiera® recognizes that women may need an extra touch, hence calling it ‘before-play,’ to help get your mind and body in the mood. Not bad, right? 
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The bottom line is that the secret to a sexy marriage is having lots of fun with your partner. While, I would never admit this to my husband, (because he is always trying to make me say that he is my best friend, and I don't) BUT in any strong relationship your partner, overtime becomes your best friend. And it’s important not to neglect each other. Have a wild night out, or goof around at home, even playfully tease one another, or surprise one another with a impromptu trip. Simply enjoy each other’s company! 

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.




  1. you guys are such #relationshipgoals ! haha We follow some of these rules in our home; no phones at the dinner table; if we're talking the phones go away so we can focus. Friday nights are reserved for going out, and we definitely get adventurous and travel together! And we can't wait to travel someday with our favorite couple <3

    XO Sahra
    Que Sera Sahra

    1. You are too sweet! Thanks Sahra. And Yes, CANNOT wait for our epic trip :D

  2. Beautiful write up..

  3. Wow love this!!! Agree with Sahra, you guys are totally #relationshipgoals at their finest!! :-)


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