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Why So Bitchy?

12:00 AM

I have been lately trying to understand what compels people to leave mean, nasty or rude remarks all over the Internet, whether it's on YouTube or Blog or other websites. This is not a thought that I am pondering over as a blogger, but as a person who spends a lot of time reading and researching for stuff online and often come across comments which I personally feel are pointless. They do not provide constructive criticism or any sort of feedback. They are often written with spite and are in abusive language. So here's what I wonder - What could be the possible outcome that the commenter is trying to achieve with that kind of feedback? 

I cannot recall even one instance when have I ever left a mean or abusive comment anywhere on the Internet. For one, I rarely feel I have time to write a succinct and clear comment on other people's posts when I disagree with them, secondly I know by experience that no one cares what anyone else thinks. They wanted to put their thoughts out there ... they did and if you don't like it don't watch/read it. And thirdly I have never found anything to be THAT big a deal that I ever needed to go all full-blast-bitch on them. 

Sure, I've disagreed with people's thoughts or rolled my eyes at what they decided to put out there for public consumption but I choose to keep my thoughts to myself or share them with people close to me OR if something leaves an impactful impression on me, then I blog about it (without calling them out or getting abusive). 

So I am back to my original question, what compels others to share their unnecessary comments on other people's posts / blogs / website etc.?

Top - Custom Made from India, Skirt - Asos, Footwear - Tommy Hilfiger, Bag - Mulberry, Belt - Michael Kors
Top - Custom Made from India, Skirt - Asos, Footwear - Tommy Hilfiger, Bag - Mulberry, Belt - Michael Kors
Top - Custom Made from India, Skirt - Asos, Footwear - Tommy Hilfiger, Bag - Mulberry, Belt - Michael Kors
Top - Custom Made from India, Skirt - Asos, Footwear - Tommy Hilfiger, Bag - Mulberry, Belt - Michael Kors
Top - Custom Made from India, Skirt - Asos, Footwear - Tommy Hilfiger, Bag - Mulberry, Belt - Michael Kors
Top (previously worn here) - Custom Made in India // Similar
Skirt (previously worn here) - Asos // Similar
Footwear - Tommy Hilfiger // Similar
Bag - Mulberry // Same
Belt - Michael Kors // Similar

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5 comments

  1. I might be wrong...but I feel these are frustrated souls. N they want to give back to the world the shit that they r going thru in their lives. I guess it makes them feel better that they r not the only ones who at the receiving end. Does this make sense?? Not??? well...I love ur footear, n u look cute as always.

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  2. Beautiful styling here. I love the addition of the belt. People say mean things on the Internet because there aren't any consequences. They probably also have deeper issues, but they choose to be mean online because they don't have to deal with it. They can just comment and X out the page and go on with their lives. Usually, when I'm on various sites, I tend to read the story (or watch the video), and just completely skip the comments because I already know there will be trolls.

    www.ohtobeamuse.com

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  3. Some people jus enjoy mocking others efforts. Sadly such sadists are large in number. I would lke to call such people Losers cos they wil never hav d courage to do anything in life except for criticize others.
    Anyways Love ur outfit :)
    Waiting for ur next video :)

    Scarf Dress

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  4. I have similar question the big why? Infact if you are aware of AIB roast hosted and overall debate my question was still "why" eitherways... talking about outfit . Hi low top with skirt is beyond my imagination and I totally loved it the way you styled it. . ! Have you ever came across any negative comment on your dressing in person or otherwise... somewhere sure nil

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  5. I dont understand that either Tanvii why people feel they can say things to you on a public forum as if it is their birth right. It is probably because they have emptyness in their lives and cannot appreciate the beautiful things in life.
    Best is to ignore and if possible delete....

    Loving the green high low top.....U look chic as usual

    Sharvari

    Mumbai to Melbourne
    http://www.mumbaitomelbourne.com/fashion-and-beauty-blog-posts

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