Yamini & Neha have me thinking about anger and forgiveness lately. I realized that do not fight with anyone as passionately as I did before. For most parts I do not find "it" worth my time. Also, do not find anyone worth fighting 'with' either. As I am growing up it is getting harder and harder to forget, though! Every memory (specially bitter ones!) is starting to become engraved in my brain forever. We have already established that I do not hold grudges, but I do not forget either. In other words it means that a lot of my brain-space is being occupied by unnecessary stuff which I wish I could cltr-alt-del. So the no-fighting part is good. Not-forgetting part, not so much!
Anyhoo, if you are wondering what happened to all the chunky knits?
Well, that's Texas for you! Totally unpredictable in terms of weather.
Skirt - BCBG via Nordstorm RACK [09']
Bangles - Here & There [07'/08'/10']
Boots - DP Italia [10']
Love the ring. Sorry I am so lazy to comment here most of the times so I mostly stick to Facebook.
ReplyDeleteLovely floweriness of the top...I know exactly what u mean, because I have the same feelings on this topic. Also around forgetfulness !
ReplyDeleteLovely top tanvi..i love the floral print and the ring too!
ReplyDeleteI fight such a lot but mostly ppl i love. With others, i just keep my mouth shut which i dont think is good at all times! But it is always good not to forget!
ME LIKE !!! ME like A LOT !!;)
ReplyDeleteTanvi,
ReplyDeleteOne can forget too and erase bad memories, may be with little more effort.
Take care
I have exactly the same thoughts about forgiving...but I do forget bad memories,guess I try too hard to do that.
ReplyDeleteI loved your boots and your pretty flowery top.. :)
I could do with some unseasonably warm weather right now! :P I also feel that I have mellowed out as I've grown older and fight with people very rarely.
ReplyDeleteLove the top! I fight a lot with ppl close to me, but then i forgive easily too. Its just that i m bad at forgetting things.
ReplyDeleteAm on a boots hunt and I want to buy Military Boots :-/ But, nothing seemed that comfi, as yet. Any suggestions? //I tried Aldo//
ReplyDeleteAnd, I love your hair, nail paint and the over all outfit ofcourse....
Cheers!
lovely combination.
ReplyDeleteI LOVE the boots!And seriously,you're 'growing up'?Good for you!And you don't need knits in Texas!Even that's hard to believe!It's freezing in Kolkata toh!And I dare not imagine how Delhi might be at this time.And the blouse is so pretty!
ReplyDeleteIt's good to strive for a Zen-like state of enlightenment where we don't get angry. Anger, while ostensibly caused by and directed at others, is really emotion created within ourselves. Ridding ourselves of it is beneficial, especially when driving. :)
ReplyDeleteNice jewelry.
loving the blouse and the boots
ReplyDeletehonestly I try to forget too but i just cant. my grandma used to say fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me. I think at times you need to keep those lessons as a reminder to not be duped again.
Come to Delhi... its colllldddd. I love the top :) Merry X'mas!
ReplyDeletei love the overall look in <3 with yr boots !
ReplyDeleteI LOVE your blouse!! So pretty!!!!!! <3
ReplyDeleteThose boots! Wow! That skirt's such a sexy shape on you, too.
ReplyDeleteI rarely fight with people unless they make a really insensitive, racist or sexist remark and then I simply have to take them to task. My drama's all in my appearance not my personality. x
Like your top!! As you grow older/up, one tends to fight a lot less maybe because we learn to see the other side of the coin or it could be just that we realize it is not worth our energy or our time :) Weather is unpredictable everywhere this time, I guess..it still hasnt snowed yet and I see green everywhere and we live in the heart of mid-west :)
ReplyDeleteI have a thing for floral prints I think! its just pretty :)
ReplyDeleteAlso, whatever anger I may have/get over loved ones, it may stay in my head, but I forget to act upon it, which I think is great :D
On wasting time and energy, it normally doesnt happen with random people, so no issues :)
totally love the skirt!! And the flowery top goes so well with it:)
ReplyDeleteAgree..anger on random people never happens..its only people who matter. And I never quite understood what forgive and forget meant! I might not actively think about any bad memory but I think it is very hard to truly forget it. And I think that goes for any memory. Cannot be forgotten :)
last month i worked on forgiving and finally let it go.
ReplyDeletei am currently working on the forgiving and forgetting part right now. i'm having a hard time with the forgetting and believing things have changed...
ReplyDeleteI really haven't like 'fought' with anyone but yes there have been misunderstandings and grudges. Sadly, even if I like to believe that I have forgiven those people the fact that I haven't forgotten constantly reminds me of what went wrong and I again slip into the phase where I have to re-forgive them. So..but ya I kinda fight a lot with my fiance :P
ReplyDeleteI love the floral blouse and teamed up with that skirt..reminds me of Blair :):)
i have the same thoughts abt the not-forgetting part...me too trying hard not-to hold grudges but somehow i just cant forget anything...
ReplyDeleteI am really bad about forgiving too easily. I tend to get walked all over--which is almost just as bad.
ReplyDeleteLove the cowgirl boots with the pencil skirt! Have a great holiday Tanvi!
Alt + Ctrl + Delete - you want to lock the memories so that you can unlock them when ever necessary or you want to shift + delete - and permanently delete the bad and hurtful memories?
ReplyDeletelove the high waist skirt with those boots!
ReplyDeleteThat blouse is so pretty! I can't hold grudges or fight much because I honestly don't have the energy. I'm a great compartmentalizer so I just put it away and forget about it. LOL xoxo
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you are letting go of unnecessary things and focusing on what's more important. Amazing blouse!
ReplyDeleteWise words, once again :) And I love that look, the skirt is lovely, and the boots fabulous :) xoxo
ReplyDeleteWe have the same BCBG skirt! LOve the way you styled it here. xo style, she wrote
ReplyDeleteThis is the first of your looks that strikes me as quite Texan (in a good way!)
ReplyDeleteIt is hard to forget, but perhaps you are not really ready to forgive so you don't forget? Like many things, it takes time.
Have a lovely weekend darling!
xoxo,
Chic 'n Cheap Living
Even I do not get anybody to fight with... don't know if thats good or bad.. anyways I do forgive but its difficult to forget.. I mean if you have been hurt or wronged in any which ways, then I think its impossible to forget
ReplyDeleteAnyways, I am sort of enjoying the weather here in Sharjah...just the right amount of sun :)
Half our lives ke hassles are due to the F's and now we can add forgiving and flirting to the list!:-)
ReplyDeleteI love the watch and boots...and you too which is never a hidden fact:-)
This thing always makes me wonder if I am a good person or not. I mean I will never hold grudges against anyone but really I cannot. cannot. cannot forget. Its etched on my rock-like brain. I hope I could get over this trait...oh well!
ReplyDeletehi di! looking very petty!! :) :x
ReplyDeleteYOUR BOOTS ARE GORGEOUS !
ReplyDeletemerry christmas !
GLISTERS AND BLISTERS
:O I feel exactly the same way!!
ReplyDeleteI don't fight as much as I did. I forgive, but I really can't forget!
:O
I loved your outfit! Specially the boots!
I LOVE YOUR HAIR!! The entire fit is awsome!
ReplyDeleteNow to this post! "a lot of my brain-space if being occupied by unnecessary stuff which I wish I could cltr-alt-del". Girl I couldn't have said it beter!!!!
Love the hair Tanvi!
ReplyDeleteI haven't had fall outs with as many people since I've gotten married. But even then, I simply cannot forgive and forget. I've tried and tried. It just doesn't happen.
Gayatri
Forgiving gives me peace.So i try to forget what makes me angry.No doubt it is very difficult!
ReplyDeleteMissing U ppl alot.
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ReplyDeleteI forgive easily..but forgetting is a pain.
ReplyDeletei loveeee your hair
Forget and forget -- easier said than done. I can relate to that :)
ReplyDeleteBeautiful you and your ensemble!
Kiran @ KiranTarun.com
I adore this outfit..The top is my favourite...
ReplyDeleteU look lovely!!
love ure skirt and top!!!
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