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Man behind this Woman!

1:01 AM

This post is 3 months late (due to a certain tech difficulties) but hey! better late than never, right? 

So today I am in the mood to talk about the wonderful man who is always behind the scenes of my blog - My husband! I am sure everyone knows by now that he is a scientist (hence we all know who has the the brains in this relationship. No arguments there!). Before meeting him I had never known a scientist in real life. It is safe to say my impression of this profession was heavily influenced by the stereotype portrayed in the books and films. And like most stereotypes, there is always an exception


Besides being intelligent, he is handsome, charming, compassionate, friendly ... I could go on and on and on ... I have lost most of my friends to him. They shamelessly declare that they prefer him over me. *sigh* But the best quality of his is that he never behaves like a typical 'Indian' man i.e. doesn't taunt me or stop me from shopping, never makes me feel guilty of leaving him behind and travel (if I do!), if I am busy writing a blog post (like right now) he cleans the kitchen and does the dishes (without me having to ask!), is always willing to take me on a holiday, makes midnight runs to the gas station if I run out of my chocolate stash (I am sure he is glad that I haven't asked him to do that in the last 4 months), never gets tired of listening to me talk about Salman, Hrithik & Aamir (Indian Actors!), and always accompanies me to all the movies I wanna watch and [beat this] also, manages to sit through the chick-flicks without whining. And of course, he was not a photographer till he met me but he has learnt the art over the past year, via research and youtube videos, just for me and my small little blog! He is my photographer, tech-support, proof reader, bounce board for ideas and punching bag. All-in-ONE! :D   


He is also, one of the funniest people I have ever met. He comes up with the wittiest and the cutest stuff, out-of-the-blue! Whenever he sees me eagerly checking my mail early in the morning, he knows I must have posted the night before and hence, will ask, "Movie release ho gayi?" [Translation: "Has the movie released?" Interpretation: "Is the new post up?"]. Whenever I cook something of his liking, he'll come up with new ways to compliment me. One recent compliment that I remember, "Tum annapurna ho!" [Translation: "You are bestower of food in great quantity"] ... You get he idea! :)


I am not saying that my life is perfect ... what I am saying is ... that ... he makes it worth it, to struggle through the imperfections!
 


I wasn't ready! I thought Husband was still checking the lighting and what-not!
Lighting seems fine, right?
But he didn't think so, and I got tired of waiting!
Finally! 
Tired and ready to go home! 
Top - BCBG [11']
Dress worn as skirt - ASOS [10']
Shoes - Dolce Vita [10']
Earrings - Bauble Bar [11']

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67 comments

  1. Luuurvee those black heels!!! (seriosuly! i need to start learning 'how to walk in heels'! )
    haha! :) Your man is so adorably witty! :P :P

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  2. Lots and lots of love and blessings to the both of you!!

    The description of your hubby seems to come straight out of my wish list :P

    love the heels!! How do you manage to walk in those killers, lady?!!

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  3. I love it when you talk about the husband, the way you do! Big hug and I wish you all the best forever! :)
    Love the whole look!

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  4. glad to hear all these things :)
    hope you had a good diwali

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  5. My best wishes to both of you! Stay happy always :)

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  6. Tanvi, Tum Annapurna ho... LOl! Hum bhi bhukhe hain... Thoda khana hume bhi bhej do.... :P On a serious note, I loved reading the post more today than seeing the pics... Lucky both of you to have each other... :)

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  7. Aww!! so damn sweet. Love the fact that he helps around and does stuff without you having to say sp. I think thats the BEST quality and very important in a relationship when u finally settle down!

    those heels are FIERCE!

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  8. Your man seems like a really cute guy.. *touchwood* to your relationship and my best wishes.. :) .. The lighting is amazing and I love the third pic.. hehe.. :) . I can't walk in heels, but they look so fab.. :)

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  9. He sounds perfect! You're so lucky to have found someone like that for you. And you look great here. Love the first picture of you.

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  10. sounds like you got yourself a winner and the pictures look great.

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  11. I love the, "I am not saying that my life is perfect ... what I am saying is ... that ... he makes it worth it, to struggle through the imperfections! "
    I am was constantly smiling while reading this! Way to go! :)

    And I love love love the outfit and the black heels.

    Love
    labelpurple.blogspot.com

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  12. Awww, what a sweet post....he sounds amazing....you are BOTH lucky to have each other:)
    Love the skirt!!!
    Enter my Shabby Apple Fab Frock Giveaway!!

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  13. Wow...amazing husband and man, you are lucky! Even mine asks after every post- 'next release up?' hahaha! Very cute shoes and great photography outdoors:)

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  14. Wow the lighting is perfect indeed. And yes we feel blessed to have such a man as ur life partner. :) I am glad u have found urs just like I have mine.

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  15. aww!! you are one hell lucky woman :) looks like i will have to wait to get my wish fulfilled...:P

    and lights are pefect...

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  16. the description of your husband makes me want to get married :)

    mom please dont read my comment am still not ready.

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  17. Awwwwwwwwwww. You're both adorable!

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  18. Great look! That shirt is so particular!

    Kisses,
    Miriam
    Fashion Crazy Ball and My Facebook Page

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  19. This is such a sweet post!! There is nothing like a good man, and your skier is gorgeous!

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  20. I understand you know Tanvii....what you mean. I have been fortunate enough to have such a man in my life, and it makes life worth it, every day and the little struggles that come our way, living through it all becomes suddenly not only possible but enjoyable. Jug jug jio both of you and happily so. :)

    Love

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  21. Tanvi,

    To be honest and no offence I did not learn anything from this post.

    I am so glad you acknowledge it and appreciate his patience. :)))

    Say my hello to him and tell him, "Hang on buddy...more to come"

    Having said that, I will never let my WIFE read this post from you...it is scary for men....

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  22. OMG...he sounds so perfect ! lucky you !
    love the outfit..

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  23. so you are married to the man of ur dreams! you are v.lucky :)

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  24. What a lovely tribute. Smart, funny, handsome... your guy has it all!

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  25. Happy Diwali to you and your husband, Tabnvi. I bet he's thrilled with this post and of course, you look fabulous. x

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  26. Thats sweet! Wish you both a happy life as always!
    I wonder how you get these nice locations?

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  27. very sweet post love! it definitely sounds like the two of you have a wonderful relationship and that you guys are a good balance. he was right about the lighting too--much better in the last 2 photos. :)

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  28. What a sweet post Tanvi! It is truly a blessing to have someone special who treats you like royalty in your life. I am always bewildered by the things my honey does for me. You are a lucky woman and he is equally a lucky man!

    I love your skirt as well and those heels are FIERCE!

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  29. love this look! ...and I love that you gave kudos to your husband for taking your photos!

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  30. Oh lucky you,he is PERFECTION PERSONIFIED!I can't find a decent boyfriend in Kolkata,let alone a husband!Where did you find him?Tell me and I'll move there,leaving everything and everyone behind!And as if a description of your perfect marriage wasn't enough,you had to torture me with those shoes!Man!I want to die under those heels!They're THAT good!

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  31. A very sweet post Tanvi! Sounds like a match made in heaven :)

    And that heels?!? My oh my. Gorg :)

    Kiran @ KiranTarun.com

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  32. Awwwww..that is so cute! This is your best-est post..so much love. Wish both of you all the luck and happiness <3
    Love your attire..the skirt,pumps..EVERYTHING!
    And thank you for visiting my blog..hope u had a good Diwali :)

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  33. You are soo beautiful. I knew there was a strong handsome man behind this strong beautiful woman!!!

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  34. How sweet Tanvi. That last line is so touching, it really should be a mantra for all marriages!

    As always, looking soooo pretty :)

    Gayatri

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  35. aww i love reading bout your man, it's so sweet:)

    you looked smoking hot btw!!

    xx

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  36. awww..this is such warm stuff! wishing you both the best, always! :)

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  37. u both r sooo perfect together...wishing u loads of happiness tanvi...

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  38. sounds like you are a lucky girl :)

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  39. The last line made me smile and is a perfect definition for 'marriage' ..Loved it.. :)

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  40. You are an incredibly lucky woman to have such an awesome guy by your side! And he is also lucky to have snagged a girl so HOT! ;)

    PS. What kind of scientist is he? My dad is a physicist, my best friend's father is a biologist, and my ex-boyfriend's father is a chemist. I grew up surrounded by them. Haha!!

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  41. awe such a cute story! Sounds like a great guy ;) And Happy Diwali! xo

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  42. wow, such a mush dipped post and why are the smiles missing in the pics?

    you made a whole lot of women jealous and a whole lot of men panic-but then all of them glad and smiling-stay blissed and blessed always and Mr Fabulous, we all knew you rock, even before Tanvi could spell out all this here;-)

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  43. Wonderful tribute to your hubby, Tanvi! You look great, too. Have a wonderful trip! xo style, she wrote

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  44. I like to think most bloggers have a wonderful guy behind the lens! This is such a fabulous tribute. Totally missing my husband now while he's away on conference:(

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  45. awww that's super sweet. love these pics, and am loving the bright red lips...perfect for fall!
    xxx

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  46. Such a sweet post! Love hearing about couples who are still smokin' for each other!

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  47. This dress looks so good as a skirt. And LOL- loved reading your commentary on the photos!

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  48. I actually didn't know your husband was a scientist, what kind of science does he work in?
    Seriously, this post is soooooo adorable, you and your husband are SO CUTE!
    Love your outfit! :) I'm really impressed that you were able to walk around in those shoes, I wouldn't have been able to, haha!
    - Laura

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  49. Such an adorable post. Your husband must be so happy after knowing that you think that he is so efficient. :) I can't help but go "Awww!"

    I love your footwear Tanvi! :)

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  50. Lovely post- the men behind the blog are very important!

    x
    Michelle
    www.michellesstylefile.blogspot.com

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  51. This is very sweet. God bless you guyz.. like hamesha! :)

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  52. I LOVE this ost and I am so happy that you guys are so happy together. There are a lot of bad men (and women too) and there are loads of bitter articles about men being dogs etc etc. It is nice to see someone celebrating her man! My hubby is a dear too and although he claims never to read my blog he was so touched when I did a post just about him!! My guess is that your hubby would really appreciate what you wrote about him!! The problem is that I sometimes find it harder to say it to his face!! So much easier to write the words.

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  53. Tanvi this post not only shows how wonderful your husband is but also how deeply you love him. <3

    raeyoflife.blogspot.com

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  54. Woah you look killer here. You're husband is one lucky fellow!

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  55. Most of my friends from school are scientists now. Scientists are an amazing group of friends to have. I find them as much fun loving as any other branch of profession.

    You travel so much ...can't believe you have not made your way to Dallas yet.

    Geeta

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  56. YOU LOOK GORG! your hubby seems wonderful :)

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  57. Awww he sounds so dreamy! May god bless both of you! :)

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  58. I love your heels and that skirt is fabulous! Sounds to me like you snagged the perfect guy for you! You are fortunate to have found such a great guy. But he is equally as fortunate to have found a great woman who appreciates him.

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  59. Wow!!!!!! He sounds amazing. I can only hope to find a man with half of those qualities! I've never found someone that supportive.

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  60. hey gurl..hope you had fun diwali!!!

    awww...such a nice post.....you know..after being married...i know realise what true love and compassion is...and hope you two guys have a lot of fun in life!!

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  61. Those are some qualities hard to find in Indian men, you certainly have a winner!!! Very beautiful post!!!!

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  62. That's so great you have a supportive husband. This is such an awesome tribute post :)

    -Ly
    http://www.lyzhang.com

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  63. Awwww.......you guys seem mad(e) for each other! ;)

    It's feels nice even to see two people who co-exist so well together....tum dono ki rishte ko kisi ki nazar na lage! Lots of love & best wishes for a long life of togetherness.....that was so sweet of you to write about him!
    He's as lucky to have got you as a wife as you are to have got him as a husband!! :))

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  64. Jai Ashish!

    Amazing photographs and he is a genius!! (i'll share my title with hi :-p)

    Can't wait to see you both!!

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  65. Awwww...glad you found him...or rather, he found you (literally) :)

    Love.

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