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Me Against Myself!

5:17 PM

Photography courtesy Tom Corbett

I love analyzing myself and everyone else around me (as and when they come in contact with me, of course!). I am one of those over-thinkers. It might not seem like that on face-value but trust-you-me when I tell you that I am addicted to thinking. However, it's more like a hobby than a call for depression! I enjoy finding things that might be common between me and the world. I also enjoy observing people and making sense out of their behavior/words/habits. From the sound of what I am saying it seems like I should have probably taken up Psychiatry or Psychology. But you know me by now, everything is a hobby for me but nothing a passion (such a tragedy)!

The point I was trying to make today was have you ever noticed that how some people seem more sorted in their head than the others? You might not know the person for very long or even closely but just in a few conversations itself you can make out if the person is a straight thinker or simply messed-up-in-the-head (for the lack of a better phrase). Often I feel, that one doesn't have to agree with what other person is saying they simply have to understand their point of view and the logic behind their words/action.

It's the lack of this 'logic' or streamlined thoughts that makes us doubt the sanity of the person and/or argue with him/her. There are very few people whom I have met that I can say are clear-headed and sorted. Don't mistake them for older and hence wiser. They are young and of today's generation. It's, I assume, inherent quality which can be developed by education but has little or nothing to do with age and qualifications.

I rest my thoughts for the day and continue with my another wild weekend :o)

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  1. Sairam!
    I read your thoughts and realized u have so many qualities and big dreams.In a short span of time you have gained patience,admirable figure and specialization in cooking.Writing has always been your best pal.You too have been doing your maltiple tasks in best possible way.GR8!!
    Last but not the least...keep your eyes-n-ear open n doors keep openning to move forward.
    Happy weekend and Marry Christmas!

  2. Tomorrow's Girl, AnitaDecember 20, 2009 at 4:34 PM

    Yes, I agree with you-very interesting point. It's rare to find people who are clear-minded and focused. I guess the information overload, access to activities, knowledge of alternatives, etc has created a multi-dimensional platform for people to live within. Simply when the time used to be off 'the road not taken' between two paths; now the paths are numerous. Availability of shortcuts and the 'there is tomorrow' dependency also can act as a hindrance in performance and streamlined goals.

    Whatever the reason, I hope the 'inherent quality' can be developed over time, experience and determination.

  3. Ani - I don't think it's the information overload or anything. I believe it's just some people are. Some can think logically and stay focused while others let too many things come in the way. But it's of no fault of theirs it's just how they are born to be!



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