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Day 22 - Friends and Siblings

9:35 PM


Last week a friend of mine called-me-up and in between conversations mentioned, "Every time I log on to Facebook, it seems you are on a new diet." She is a really nice person and I know meant no harm but what I do not understand is when people pass their comments (judgements) without knowing the facts. Clearly, she hasn't been following my Blog, which is fine as it's her personal choice (and her loss :P). If she had been reading, she would know I am not on a new diet everyday. So why pass an unnecessary comment? But I guess it's a common practice. People say things without thinking just to fill the conversation. I hope I do not fall into that trap, at least not often!

With Super-brother in Londres

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Recently, I have been analyzing the pros and cons of being the eldest sibling and having no sister (elder or younger). More so, because recently I realized that everyone close to me seem to be either younger (or middle one) of all their siblings (Father, Mother, Brother, Husband, & BFF) or have a younger sister (remaining to my friends). The only rule of exception here would be Meetu D! Therefore, everyone has someone to look up to, someone who pampers them, advices them, bullies them, or believes in them. Now , no ... no, it's no-pity talk. It is only an observation. Even if given a chance I wouldn't change a thing about my childhood or my status in the family. I have a lot of perks and I wouldn't wanna lose them ever *devilish.laugh*.

With BFF on the 6th Street in Austin

I am close to reaching my 4 X 8 benchmark of 8 X 8 Project and hence I went to pre-order my cute-little-neon-shorts from Guess what? They do not have my size! (very upsetting). I have to find some other splurge to motivate me. Although, my heart is still set on those neon shorts! *sad.face*

Week 4 | Day 22 | 7th September 2009

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  1. Don't worry babe... I'm sure Roxy will have your size soon .... :)) Thanks for motivating us all!!

  2. LIFElong Motivator, AnitaSeptember 8, 2009 at 12:56 PM

    Aww..there's a photo of me! :-) (before i took the hat of a stranger!)

    well, yeah i think everybody's deal is cool (as long as that relationship doesn't thrive on negativity and hatred!)- younger, older, everything. What you don't have in your relatives you seek in your friends. That's fair enough. Without you knowing it you have the best of both worlds. And the 'relationship obligation' doesn't manipulate your communication and emotions. It's the real thing! So girl, get your chin up, spend some time online and if you don't seek a roxy, something out there will be more foxy! (see i rhyme!)

    okay now tell me what's your new reward! wanna see! shoes?? red shoes?

  3. Nandini - Thanks! I hope they have it real soon, now. I am an impatient sorts :P ... I am glad I can help!

    Ani - I know. But seeing around me ... There are a lot of benefits of having a sister ... or even having an elder sibling which I am realizing I have no clue of. Feels like I am missing out on something!!!

  4. Sisterhood of the YAYA Pants, AnitaSeptember 10, 2009 at 4:31 AM

    Yeah the sister part I understand (it's something I haven't gotten over yet!) but sometimes you never know what personality your 'wishful' sibling would end up with! :-p And u have the best bro in the world-tanoooj! :-) he rocks!

  5. i'm the eldest too....and have no sister :(

  6. Finally i featured!! :P I luv to be the younger one.

  7. Kajal - Then you know what I mean, right? No one to look after and rely upon!!! :(

    TJ - haha! Yeah! You had featured earlier as well but ya it had been sometime. Hmmm ... :o) I know YOU like being the YOUNGER one!!!



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