Benefit of Doubt ... ?!?

4:10 PM

I feel the world is becoming culturally challenged. They are in some sort of a hurry to label people and move on... Bringing stereotypes to life! And, somehow I always manage to get myself involved in discussions where I am representing the case of the 'weaker-link' [I had often been advised to study law]. I simply can't stand it when people club a group of individuals together and declare their judgement, "All EFG are XYZ!" Have you met all EFG? [EFG being a group of people having a same sex, religion, or nationality, etc.]

My first interaction with a multi-cultural environment was in high-school (more like culture-shock). First year was extremely rough because I didn't understand the 'culture' or even why 'high-school' was such a big deal! I guess, back home I was being brought up on a very sheltered turf. Anyways, eventually I caught up and by the time I was in college (which was 100 times more culturally diverse than high school) I was a little more comfortable with people from different backgrounds! 

Now, looking back, I can honestly say that I never formed any preconceived notions about any nationality or culture. I took my sweet time before I made-up my opinion about anyone (or anything) and mostly based it on hard facts. But I was never (I know - 'Never say Never' - But I am saying never) stereotypical about it! 

I personally think we should be very careful about what we say and how we think. It's our words and thoughts that is forming our society today more than actions and education (considering we have very well-educated terrorists nowadays). Besides we all know everyone is different. It's simply unfair to label countries and religions ( ... then we wonder why certain people are so bitter?!?!). 

Like my dad says, we should be extremely patient with people; you never know who might surprise you. Everyone deserves a 'benefit of doubt'!

Ever heard ... Innocent until proven guilty?!?!

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2 comments

  1. Hey I really like your last two posts. They r extreamly insighful and though provoking.

    I do agree with most of ur ideas. Being judgemental is not a bad thing...but whats important is how to potray ur judgements across.

    (I guess tht covers both ur posts :P)

    Keep them coming!

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  2. Hi Tanvi,
    As someone who teaches and writes about multiculturalism I found the post very interesting. Most people in my field would say that you cannot NOT form a biased opinion. All our thoughts, perceptions and analyses are filtered via existing frameworks (or stereotypes.) What matters is whether you can recognize them after the fact and work to counter them.

    For example, if a person has heard that all Martians are stingy or conservative or lazy, then that person will automatically evaluate ALL Martians using that standard. But if you remember your own tendency to do so you can monitor your perception accordingly.

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